How to Use Huge Large Dildos
If ‘super-long’ and ‘super-thick’ sound super-satisfying, then you’re ready to read our expert guide on how to enjoy extra-large dildos.
Big dildos range from just a little larger than lifesize to bigger than anything your bedroom bud could fit in their trousers. Some are short and thick, and some are long and skinny – the biggest and boldest are long, wide and oh-so-sensational.
If you’re looking to take your dildo game from tame to aflame, our guide will help you get started with monster dildos and give you top tips on how to get the most pleasure from them.
Lube, lube again, and a bit more
Like most dildos, XL dildos are designed to provide internal satisfaction. Unlike most dildos, giant dildos are almost certainly going to stretch your body on their way in, which makes it imperative that you use lubricant and plenty of it.
Make sure you use the suitable lubricant for the dildo you’ve purchased; you can’t go wrong with the water-based variety. Choose a thicker anal lubricant if you’re playing round back and a vagina-friendly lubricant if you’re stretching up front.
Start slowly and play progressively
It’s always important to start small and work your way up, but that holds even more true with big dildos. Your body needs time to prepare for an extra-girthy dildo so you can enjoy your experience; never rush into things without foreplay or warm-up, as you could damage yourself.
“Not only is lube required, but warming up with a smaller dildo is also required for me. I'm always game for a challenge, and my partner finds it a huge turn-on when we use this toy.”
Get started by ensuring you’re fully aroused. You can play with a smaller toy or even have intercourse with your partner to get yourself turned on. Once you’re ready, spread out in a comfortable position and slowly begin to insert your dildo.
You can try lying on your back with a pillow under your bottom, with your legs raised and spread, or you may prefer to squat down over the dildo, so you have complete control of the depth. Once you pass the widest part of the dildo, your body should be more relaxed, which allows you to explore the sensations in your own time.
Explore filling and stretching pleasures
Once your dildo’s inside, the sky’s the limit! Some people like to twist the dildo inside them to stimulate all the internal erogenous zones, while others prefer to thrust in and out. Experiment to determine your preference - remember to go slow and steady.
“It fills with a lovely stretch. A favourite toy, which my husband and I have named Mr Grey xx.“
First, dildos provide a 'full-up' sensation that stimulates your internal walls and provides a feeling of being stretched, which is a fantasy for many. Pay close attention to what your body is telling you, and you should be able to enjoy every inch of your massive sex toy with ease.
If you start to feel any pain or discomfort, stop. When buying a large dildo for you or your partner, it's important to remember that bodies have their limits, and you or they might not be able to manage an enormous dildo, especially vaginally. There's only so far it can go!
Many people worry that using giant dildos will stretch them permanently, leaving them 'loose'. However, your body's natural elasticity will prevent this from happening, and you will regain the tightness in your muscles just a day or two after having fun with your dildo.
